Simple Joys of Christmas....

This is what our Christmases have looked like in the past. Yeah, for four children, that's a lot of presents. We didn't do anything extravagant or expensive, but it was a lot.

Then, last year, I decided to make Christmas simple. I wanted my children to learn the true meaning of Christmas. I wanted to start a tradition that would be something they might take with them to their own families.

My parents were wonderful examples of service while I was growing up. They taught me to love and serve the less fortunate. I want my children to learn the same thing. Thanks Mom and Dad for the great example you have always been to me!

We asked them to choose two presents they would like Santa to bring them. One they really wanted and one that would be their second choice.

Then I chose a service project. I had no idea the magnitude of this project or that my heart would be wrenched in two as it hit close to home.

Christmas was wonderful. It was simple. It was just what I was looking for. So, this year, we are making HUG pillows. They are pillows for children who have gone through a traumatic experience. The social worker/police officer gives them a pillow in the shape of a heart. It has a pocket with a small toy to "entertain" the child during the hours of interviews and waiting they have to go through.

It has personal meaning, as I was that social worker so many times. There were hundreds of HUG pillows I wish I could have given to children. Now I can, in my own way.

We also got Jason's studio involved too. We are having donations brought in by the students to make healthy food bags for children who might otherwise go hungry over the weekends. The county has targeted several schools and children. The Assistance League makes up the bags. Our neighbor is on the board of directors. She was the one who gave me both these ideas.

I have heard so many people worrying about Christmas this year. All the presents they have to buy and send and wrap and what to get.

I just smile.

I simplified and I love it. Even with Jason's family, I told them I would like to not give presents this year, but get together, decorate cookies and go caroling.

Today while I was visiting teaching our Relief Society president, she told us she was giving the lesson on Sunday and wanted ideas of service that worked in our lives.

I just smiled.

Where do I start telling her how much this year has made an impact on my life because of service. Service that I wanted to give, service that I unexpectedly gave, service I sought out and service I received.

There is a special feeling at Christmas time. The world seems to come together. And no matter how crazy it gets, I know I can always turn off the lights and look at the glow of the tree.

Life is not perfect for me and it is still crazy, but in the craziness, I hope I am showing my children how to make a difference in the life of another. To lift someone up, to show love and to follow in the footsteps of our Savior.

I hope you are finding joy this holiday season.

Turn out the lights and just sit by the Christmas tree in the evening and enjoy the moment!