A reminder....

This afternoon my mom called. She is working on my grandparents life history. She was reading through some entries and came across an entry that she had to call me about.

I am so glad she followed the spirit and did.

You see, my dad and I had an intense discussion this morning about life and me and my parenting and our business and other things. He told me things I needed to hear. I cried, because I always cry when I talk about things like this. And we had a great conversation. It helped me resolve to do better on a lot of things. And he was very honest and loving with what he said. He in no way was critical, but gave suggestions and observations.

So when my mom called me to remind me of this story, I started crying again. I needed to be reminded that I am supposed to be here doing what I am doing. After getting home from a mission, sometimes it is hard to remember how many spiritual experiences I really had. Hearing my mom today tell my grandma's version of the story was a great reminder of my mission, my purpose and everything my dad and I discussed.

So, here is the story.....

One evening after a meeting, one of the Elders and I were standing on the street corner getting ready to cross a busy street. We were talking and laughing and our companions were just a few feet behind us. Moments later, we were three feet back from where we had been standing. A car came speeding past, very close the edge of the road.

In the moments before, it was as if I was in slow motion and was being lifted up and placed away from the road and harms way. Afterwards, we looked at each other in amazement, as did our companions. We both realized that our lives had just been spared. The car was out of control and ran into a man, who was later pronounced dead. The spirit bore witness to all of us that we were supposed to be saved in that moment. The overwhelming feelings of the spirit stayed with me for weeks afterwards and it renewed my testimony of the divinity of the plan of salvation and my Savior Jesus Christ.

So, it has been a day of reflection for me. One that I needed. One that I hope I can take the feelings and the conversations and the reminders and make myself a better person.

Focus Word for the new year.......ENJOY

Yesterday my dad was expecting a gentleman with whom he does business. They were going to use our house for a meeting place for a couple of hours and then go out to dinner to finish their meeting. This man is investing in some companies and has A LOT , and I mean A LOT of money to invest.

So, I went into panic mode, like I always do. I started cleaning the house. And as I am cleaning, the walls looked dirty and I realized I still haven't painted the kitchen wall. The other day I went crazy and moved furniture all around which left us with no rug and two non-matching chairs in the living room. I started to get frustrated. I have such a vision for my house and I know what I want it to LOOK like, that I get angry sometimes. I start projects and run out of time. I try and make it different and never get the project completed.

I finally had to take a deep breath. I wasn't going to get the wall painted, the chairs weren't going to get reupholstered and I couldn't afford a rug in the next three hours. I sat down and closed my eyes and asked Heavenly Father to help me out.

Of course, the immediate thought I had was that more importantly what my house looked like, was that it felt like a HOME. I made some minor changes in the decor and made sure the floors were vacuumed. I said a prayer that when this gentleman came to my home, he would feel the spirit. He would feel the love and happiness we have here. He would see the children's artwork and the pictures of family and never see the wall that needed to be painted or the mismatched chairs. Because I know my home has the spirit and we try hard to keep the spirit here. And that is more important to me than anything!

I tend to not ENJOY my surroundings sometimes. Maybe it is because I have such a vision for decor and other things, but I am always thinking of how it could be better. I am also guilty of that with my family and other things.

My dad and I had a conversation about Eleanor the other day. She was on her third major outfit. Clothes, tights, shoes and hair accessories. All I could think about was the laundry. He reminded me to pick my battles. I had to take a deep breath and not ask him to try and do the laundry in my house for a week, but I knew he was right. I need to let her experiment with her clothes. She does an amazing job for a six year old!!! She has creativity bursting from her little body and I tend to not let her express herself.

So this year I am going to try and ENJOY life a little more. Enjoy my home and pick a project that is attainable in a reasonable amount of time. ENJOY my children and not always be on them about something. ENJOY my husband who keeps me sane and helps me out so much. I want to ENJOY the moments , ENJOY the laughter, ENJOY the 13 year old who still hugs me, ENJOY the 10 year old who is the sweetest boy in the world, ENJOY the 6 year old who keeps me on my toes and blows me away with her maturity, ENJOY the three year old because she is growing up so fast.

I am going to try and ENJOY the time I have with each of these amazing children and ENJOY being a mom more. I think I do a pretty good job right now, but I am really going to try hard an embrace the word in my life......ENJOY!!!!

My Beautiful, Sweet Eleanor.......

My little Eleanor is an amazing child. She can try my patience to its uttermost limits and make me so happy the next. She is an intense child. She is creative and dramatic, musical and a fashionista. In her new school, the first graders put on a holiday extravaganza. It is a big deal. At least it was for Eleanor. She wanted a new dress. We looked everywhere and finally I decided to make her one.....then we went to plan B and asked Grandpa Day to make the dress. (I got in a little over my head!) We went and got her a special headband and a necklace and a ring. Then we happened on some really cute shoes that were silver like her dress and "high heels" just like she wanted. She was in seventh heaven!!!! Here is my beautiful Eleanor......

The dress was a simple one, but we found this amazing snowflake material that we thought would be pretty as an overlay. It turned out amazing! Thank you, Grandpa Day, for making it!

Here she is after the concert with her cute friend, Penelope...

The concert was amazing! Each class dressed up like either a penguin, in winter hats and Eleanor's class was dressed up like reindeers.....so cute!

They sang several songs and then performed several grand finale songs.....it was really good!!!

The decorating was amazing also.....I wish I could take the credit, but I just helped my friend, Sara, create this amazing entrance and then the snowy backdrop....

We made it out of paper and glued the figures on top. Then I added detail to the stars and we added glitter to everything!!! There were snowflakes hanging from the ceiling and the children had decorated candy canes and gingerbread men that were also on the walls.

I was really proud of her! She loves to work the camera also, as you can tell!

I can't believe that my girls are growing up so much!

She is such a cutie pie too!!!

I love you beautiful Eleanor!